Escort Etiquette: A Simple Guide

So you are interested in hiring an escort...

Whether you’re new to hiring an escort or simply want to improve your understanding, following proper etiquette is key to creating a respectful and enjoyable experience for both parties.

Do Your Research

Take time to read the escort’s website, social media, or advertisements thoroughly.

Understand their services, rates, and boundaries before reaching out.

Do not ask questions that have already been answered on the provider's ad or on their website. 

One of the most annoying things a client can do is ask me what my rates are for a quick visit when my website clearly states that I do not offer quick visits. - Veronica a provider in Dallas Texas

Communicate Clearly and Respectfully

When contacting a provider: Introduce yourself politely and state what service you’re interested in. Be respectful and use discreet language.

Avoid being overly explicit or using inappropriate language. Most providers will not even respond back to someone who is using explicit language. 

Confirm all details such as date, time, and location in advance.

Example message:
"Hi [Escort’s Name], my name is [Your Name]. I’m interested in booking a 2-hour session on [date]. Please let me know if you’re available and if you need any additional details from me. Thank you!"

Respect Their Time and Boundaries

Punctuality is key. Be on time for your booking. If you’re running late, notify them as soon as possible.

Stick to the agreed-upon time. Don’t overstay unless you’ve arranged to extend the booking (and pay for additional time).

Follow their rules regarding services offered. Never pressure or attempt to negotiate for something outside their boundaries.

 
Be Clean and Presentable

Take a shower, groom yourself, and dress appropriately before meeting.

Use mouthwash or breath mints.

This basic courtesy enhances the experience for both of you.

 
Payment Etiquette

Have the agreed-upon payment ready in cash (or the accepted payment method) before the session begins.

Place the payment discreetly in an envelope or as instructed. Never make the provider ask for it—it’s uncomfortable and unprofessional.

Don’t try to haggle or negotiate rates after the fact.

 
Consent and Mutual Respect

Escorts are professionals, not objects. Treat them with respect, kindness, and consideration.

Consent is a two-way street. Always ensure your actions are within their comfort zone.

If you’re unsure, ask politely.

Confidentiality

Discretion is crucial for both parties.

Don’t ask personal questions or pry into their private life unless they initiate that conversation.

Never share details of your encounter with others.

 
Tipping and Gratitude

While not mandatory, tipping is always appreciated as a sign of gratitude.

A thoughtful compliment or a simple “thank you” goes a long way in showing respect for their service.

 
No Judgment Zone

Many escorts have diverse clients.

Avoid judgmental comments or inappropriate assumptions about their lifestyle, profession, or other clients.

 
Post-Session Etiquette

Once the session is over, don’t linger unless you’ve arranged an extension.

If you enjoyed your time, consider leaving a positive review. You may respectfully ask them if they have a preferred site to leave a review on.